Thursday, September 20, 2007

Sexual health and romance novels

The 9/24 issue of Macleans takes a slightly startled look at women's sexual health in Harlequin romance novels.

The article discusses several recent novels that tackle sexual violence and sexual health. One striking example is Lucy Monroe's Blackmailed into Marriage:
Its entire plot revolved around vaginismus, a condition that causes vaginal muscles to involuntarily contract shut.... The book is laden not only with explicit depictions of a wide variety of sex acts, but also jaw-dropping clinical-yet-romantic descriptions of the couple engaging in the most common treatment for vaginismus: the insertion of a series of dilators.
I realize it's a painful medical condition, but surely everyone who reads the article thinks... A Harlequin with dildos?! That certainly seems to be the magazine's take.

I wasn't impressed by the one Lucy Monroe novel I tried, but I am impressed that she's apparently managed to write about something horrendously intimate in a matter-of-fact way, and get it published widely. (See Monroe's website for an interesting contrast between the banal fairytale described by the book's cover copy and the public health statement farther down the page.) She has also written about endometriosis and about impotence in a wheelchair-bound man.

The article also mentions Sandra Marton's The Greek Prince's Chosen Wife, which shows "a woman learning to trust after being sexually abused in foster care". And Annie West's For the Sheikh's Pleasure describes "a woman struggling to be physically and emotionally intimate after being drugged and raped during a night out".

Taboo topics

The argument is sometimes made that romance fiction is inherently feminist. I’m not convinced that romance is inherently feminist, though many individual novels have feminist themes1. One could argue that the genre’s focus on relationships inherently facilitates discussion of sexual health. That has only recently become true as romances become more explicit--and it's by no means true for all of romance’s subgenres. However, I do find it significant that romance is the one fiction genre in which these issues are aired to a broad audience.

(General health is a subject found in all genres2. Sexual violence crops up regularly in other genres, but I think the focus on the path to recovery is primarily found in romance and nonfiction.)

What's clear is that romances broach subjects that are taboo in other genres. Whether this is feminist depends on whether the taboos are differentially applied to subjects relevant to women, and on how these woman-oriented themes are written and received. Regardless, it's a good thing that these stories can be written and widely disseminated and discussed.

The flip side: They're short

The Macleans article cites two downsides to these themes in Harlequin Presents novels:

1. "The brevity of the books can force quick solutions", e.g. the vaginismus sufferer who was cured in a single night.

Macleans focused entirely on short-form Harlequin Presents novels (generally less than 200 pages). In erotic romance, you find still more of these themes. For example, Robin Schone’s Scandalous Lovers (450 p.) involves post-menopausal sex; Megan Hart's Broken (380 p.) explicitly describes masturbation and quadriplegic sex.

2. "Sometimes... the serious plots are too intense for their format. A recent book featured the European sex trade, physical abuse, pornography and the hero's prostitute sister beaten to death by the heroine's father. The mandatory happy ending after 187 pages felt anything but romantic.”

Unconvincing happy endings can happen in longer novels too (cf. Broken). But I agree, the short format can constrain the plot's development (apart from the sturm und drang)... and sometimes leads to curing systemic illnesses overnight.

Conundrums

Macleans talked about issues to do with format. I think some of the thornier issues are more qualitative.

• Even given an important topic, not all portrayals are equal. Illness, violence, pain, and shame can all too easily be trivialized and commodified into simply a means to ratchet up the emotional intensity of the read.

• Romance novels spread both good information and misinformation. For example, Kalen Hughes has debunked several myths about the hymen. Given how often the hymen is mentioned in the romance genre, it's astonishing how frequently it's accompanied by inaccurate physiology and counterfactual emotional and moral interpretations.

• Many romance novels use sexual health as a metaphor for character. Having a sexually transmitted infection can indicate bad character. A powerful, attractive man is often depicted as potent almost to the point of priapism. Many novels portray the heroine's virginity or ignorance of orgasm as emblematic of good character and femininity; some explain her virginity by invoking abuse or ill health. While I think it's almost always done unintentionally, this pattern can implicitly equate victimhood or frailty with feminine desirability, or sexual repression with good character.

Even though all of the above can (and has) gone wrong at times, it's great that romances from Harlequins to erotic romances are, in their own ways, expanding the boundaries of what's written. And ultimately I think it says something important about readers:
"I think that women who do read our books know damn well that they're going to get something that could be light but could have some meat to it," Marton says. "They are not just perfectly happy getting that -- they're interested in getting that."
Yes, Virginia, the romance novel is nearly as varied as its readership.


1 From Laura Vivanco's examination of Harlequin/Mills & Boon novels:
while I found many romances which could be considered feminist, and while the authors I corresponded with identified as feminists, there were a few novels which were anti-feminist in tone and yet others where feminist issues simply didn't arise in the course of the story.
2 In romance, several sites list novels involving major health issues. Laura Vivanco enumerates a number of ways in which love and physical health are intertwined in romance narratives; physical health may reflect the health of a relationship (from weight loss and pallor through literal heart failure).

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Tuesday, July 17, 2007

Part 2. Olivia Judson: Dr Tatiana, the TV series

More on Dr Tatiana's Sex Advice to All Creation.... There's a TV show!

It's 3 one-hour episodes. It may never show in the US (it's considered too risqué for tender American eyes and ears), but I've found one Youtube clip and a few clips on TV sites.

Sex for pleasure


BBC Channel Four has several pages on the series.

The Discovery Channel has short videos of Judson talking sex and answering letters from lovelorn critters.
  • Check out the bottom clip, "Sex advice for the animal kingdom", for some truly strange live-action simulated bee sex. That is, simulated bees AND simulated sex.
  • One of the Discovery Channel videos wouldn't play for me. It's about a desperately unhappy elephant. I think this is he:

Single Income, No Babe, Absolutely Desperate

Dear Dr. Tatiana,

Perhaps you can help. I don't know what's happened to me. I’m a twenty-seven-year-old African elephant, and I used to enjoy showering at the water hole and other idle pleasures. But the joy has gone from life. I feel angry all the time—if I see another bull elephant, I want to kill him. And I’m obsessed with sex. Night after night I have erotic dreams, and the sight of a beautiful cow sends me into a frenzy. Worst of all, my penis has turned green. Am I ill?

--Anxious in Amboseli


Uncontrollable aggression, obsessive lust, morbid anxiety about your sexual health: this all sounds normal for a fellow in his late twenties. It’s nothing to worry about. You’ve just got a case of SINBAD: Single Income, No Babe, Absolutely Desperate. Unfortunately for you, however, you're likely to be in this state for much of the next twenty years. Female elephants prefer older males. Until you're bigger, the cows will run away from you.

Read for pleasure

I was absolutely fascinated by Dr. Tatiana. See Part 1 for the original post on the book, and drtatiana.com for more quotes.

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Olivia Judson: Dr Tatiana's Sex Advice to All Creation

Evolutionary biologist Olivia Judson assumes the breezily reassuring persona of Dr. Tatiana, sex columnist to the wild kingdom. The variety of examples is fabulous and provocative, and the tone is readable but packed with information. I foresee this book becoming a favorite reference.

Judson does particularly well at updating some old-fashioned ideas of sex characteristics, evolution, and mate selection. At the same time, she's careful not to over-extrapolate from animal behaviors to humans. Reassuringly, she also refrains from generalizing between closely-related animal species.

I'll just highlight a few of the ways that Dr. Tatiana sheds a delightful light on relationships--particularly as applied to the romance genre, where much sex is to be found:

  • The nonstop screw:
    • (i) Regency rake or alien abduction?
    • (ii) Ten weeks and four inches!
  • Ejection contraception
  • Damn that deodorant
  • Threesomes, m/m, and infertility
  • An egalitarian chastity belt

The nonstop screw (i). Regency rake or alien abduction?

All those fictional Regency rakes whose lives are a 24/7 tour de screw? Probably infertile.
Even rams, who supposedly hold sperm reserves for ninety-five ejaculations (a typical man holds enough for one and a half) soon find their sperm counts going into freefall. After six days of sex, the sperm in a ram's ejaculate can fall from more than ten billion to less than fifty million--a threshold below which he'll have a hard time impregnating anybody.
Regency miss: He was my one and only; I was his 54th girl that week. I gave him my innocence; he gave me a baby.
Kindly brothel owner: That rake? I don't think so. Odds of him knocking you up: between 1 in 33 and 1 in 20 if he were fresh... but after 54 times this week, um... 1 in 8,000. Odds of intelligent alien life: 1 in 100. That baby's 80 times more likely the spawn of an alien abduction than a duke's illegitimate heir.

The nonstop screw (ii). Ten weeks and four inches!

"You’re the best I’ve ever had" and "I'm so into you, I want sex 24/7". I hear those a lot. Doesn't everyone who reads fiction?

And then there are those marathon bouts of passion: see how virile he is! how happy they are! Surely at some point someone gets sore or sleepy? But maybe the marathon isn't sex or love, it's a claim.
Dear Dr. Tatiana,
My name’s Twiggy, and I’m a stick insect. It’s with great embarrassment that I write to you while copulating, but my mate and I have been copulating for ten weeks already. I’m bored out of my skull, yet he shows no sign of flagging. He says it’s because he’s madly in love with me, but I think he’s just plain mad. How can I get him to quit?
--Sick of Sex in India


Twiggy, your suspicions are half right. Your paramour is mad… with jealousy. By continually copulating he can guarantee that no one else will have a chance to get near you. It's a good thing he's only half your length, so he's not too heavy to carry about.

Ejection contraception

The chicken technique sounds handy but inaesthetic. "That was nice, honey... *splut*." The loogie effect is sure to make an already-awkward moment worse.
Caribbean reef squids males place packets of sperm anywhere on the female’s head or tentacles. The female either moves the sperm packet to her sperm storage organ… or she picks it off and throws it away.... Farmyard chicken females who copulate with a male low in the pecking order are likely to eject his sperm as he dismounts.

Damn that deodorant

Spontaneous abortions are more likely when couples match at particular MHC genes…. In a number of "smelly T-shirt" experiments people consistently prefer the smells of those whose genes… are different from their own.
Does beer breath work the same way? Some guys smell delish with a pint in them. Some are too rank to share a cab with.

Threesomes, m/m, and infertility

Wouldn’t this change the dynamics of a threesome! And it’s a whole new motivation for male/male sex; in a sense any partner can impregnate any other, regardless of gender.

On top of that, Dr Tatiana says 10-20% of infertile couples are healthy but a poor genetic match. In this scenario, they might not need to find a surrogate mother; they could just find hubby a boytoy.
Dear Dr Tatiana,
My name’s Rob, and I’m a bedbug,
Xylocoris maculipennis. I’ve read that if I have sex with my friend Fergus, he’ll deliver my sperm when he next has sex with Samantha. Is this for real?
--Making Mischief between the Sheets


...The claim is that… sperm injected into another male will migrate through his body and arrive in his gonads…. It’s possible—-but it’s unlikely.

An egalitarian chastity belt

In Moniliformis dubius (tiny spiny-headed worms),
When a male mates with a female… he finishes off by capping her genitalia with a chastity belt made of a kind of cement…. Males aren’t shy about cementing up each other either: by applying cement to another guy’s genitals, they prevent the other guy from copulating.
OK, it still sucks.

Crusader, on his way out the door: Before I go, make sure you can pee. If you’re stuck, I’ll pick up some solvent.
Long-suffering wifey: Isn’t this overkill? You're taking all the men with you.
Crusader: Last time I came home, you'd named a kitchen pestle Rodney the Ever-Ready. No more of that!

More, more, more

I enjoyed Dr Tatiana, and I foresee referring to her columns frequently in future. The variety of examples is fabulous, and I found the tone well balanced and only anthropomorphic in the most humorous way. On the science side, Judson does well at not over-extrapolating from animal behaviors to humans. Reassuringly, in a number of places she also refrains from generalizing between closely-related animal species. From the general tone and the detailed footnotes, Dr Tatiana feels solidly based in experimental data and theory.

As an advice columnist, Judson is nonjudgmental, if a little on the brisk side. On topics where she might easily have heckled like Jerry Springer, instead her commonsensical replies evoke Dr. Phil and Ann Landers. If I were, say, a Lamprologus ocellatus from Lake Tanganyika, I wouldn't hesitate to seek Dr Tatiana's advice.

Judson has a lot of quotes and interesting press on drtatiana.com. Also Snow, on The Only True Magic, says Dr. Tatiana won an American Library Association award; the other awardees look interesting.

Grade: A

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Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Emma Holly: Prince of Ice

Prince of Ice is my favorite of Emma Holly's erotic fantasy novels. Set in a steampunk universe, it has all the fairytale ingredients of youthful romance, duty, cultural mores, and hidden identity. Holly's writing is strong as always, and the strange world is integral to the story.

In Holly's world, demon (yama) culture is like a hybrid of imperial China and Planet Vulcan: ceremonious, stratified, stern... and horny. (Think Mr Spock with a nonstop sex drive and pretty clothes.) Yama society prizes emotional control above all.

Prince Corum and Xishi were raised together until age 8. Reunited at 20, they show signs of emotions that appall Cor's royal parents. The yama are conformists, and both Xishi and Corum are already marked as outsiders: she by parentage, he by a subtler taint. Xishi and Cor face legal, familial, and cultural strictures, but their childhood bond and new adult connection are incredibly strong.

Fairytales on their heads

Prince of Ice is layered with cultural references. A pay-per-view screening of Pride and Prejudice is highly controversial: to the sexually free but emotionally uptight yama, Jane Austen is freaky porn. The resolution of P&P, with love overcoming duty and class, is exactly what Cor's family fears most.

Ice is also very much a fairytale. (The deliberate fairytale elements and anachronisms remind me a little of Robin McKinley’s Beauty.) It's Cor who's labeled the "Sleeping beauty", and Holly plays with other romance traditions too. I count 3 virgins, 2 secret babies, and a One True Love theme... but not in their usual guises. Of the 3 virgins, one seduces a man in an elaborate revenge plot, one's a trained concubine, and one's a man. Xishi and Cor have a surprisingly egalitarian dynamic, absent the usual inequalities of experience. (Xishi is slightly more knowledgeable, as her training included a, ahem, hands-on lab on male physiology.)

The nonstop sex drive

We learn a startling amount about royal yama physiology and reproduction. The story centers on a clever piece of biology: yama royal males don’t mature sexually until they find their genetic match. Even at maturity, they can only ejaculate for one week a month, and only with their perfect mate. (And by “for one week", I do mean without stopping.) Holly portrays this genetic element as in part a choice--and not only a lip-service to choice; partially-matched couples are prominent in the story.

The royal sex drive makes me guffaw when Xishi and Corum first meet again. Unawakened, oblivious Corum goes from zero to Ron Jeremy in a nanosecond. Before he even sees Xishi, he feels “as if a heated poker had lodged between his legs, and his balls were pulsing and hot.” He can smell her (!) from outside the building. Xishi is more restrained: her moisture doesn’t run down her thigh until he looks at her.

And then there's the royal male anatomy. The crazy sexual adaptations remind me of another recent read: Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to All Creation: The Definitive Guide to the Evolutionary Biology of Sex. Corum’s penile peculiarities fit right in with the stick insect (stamina), the Argentine lake duck (my god, the size), and the golden potto (penis like a hairbrush).

As you might imagine, the sex is strange and frequent. And if you think the ass is something to be gingerly patted after sex is over, I don’t recommend this book.

There's one bout of sex where I must, simply must, point out a moment of cheese and a trope. I've hidden the spoiler:
1. The actual moment of conception.... The little balls of light? Chiming and giggling? So much cheese there, I was totally jolted out of the story. I can go along with a fairytale of a sweet young couple, but they're 20, yes? Not 5? When did this become a Disney flick?
2. Why is it so common to wrap up a story with the couple having twins? And not just twins, but boy-girl twins? I see it everywhere. In fact, Kelley Armstrong just did it with Clay & Elena in No Humans Involved. It always feels eye-rollingly tidy to me. As one friend put it, that's the writer saying "I have nothing more to say. Life is perfect. They're having their cake and eating it too. And besides, they're busy raising twins. Don't ask to hear more of their story because you wouldn't enjoy it. They don't have time for adventures."

The ending

Others (Jane and Bam) hated the deus ex machina ending. I can understand that, but in Prince of Ice I think the ending fits the fairytale. Coach turns into pumpkin, princess is immured in castle, fairy godmother to the rescue... then a sting in the tail: losing magical powers, banishment, etc. Xishi's fairy godmother (so to speak) also helps unravel the mystery of how a commoner could be Cor's perfect mate.

The other Demon books

Holly's other Demon books are set in Victorian/steampunk border towns where humans coexist uneasily with yama. (See this post on steampunk visuals for some yama-looking technologies!) Those towns are too complicated for such short books. Take a stratified Dickensian society of xenophobic Victorians; muddle it up with steampunk technological anachronisms. Then take a stratified imperial Chinese society of xenophobic, genetically-modified… Vulcans? and muddle that up with futuristic technology. Finally, take from each culture the rejects and opportunists one expects in border towns. Too, too, too many layers.

Prince of Ice takes place entirely in the yama's homeland, which gives Holly more space to develop the caste system, the genetic mutations among the royals, the sexual characteristics and mating, the protagonists' relationships with family and friends. In the other Demon books, the protagonists are outcasts from their native cultures, so we see little of their past or character except what Holly tells us. The characters are shallower as a result. In Prince of Ice, Xishi and Corum are fleshed out through family histories.

I like the idea of the Demon steampunk settings, but the books lack sufficient development to convince me the couple have really connected across all those barriers, let alone enough to cement a happily ever after. I'd actually enjoy the Demon books more if Holly ditched the rush-to-the-altar happy endings and just let the characters explore the freedom to mate across cultural boundaries. The setting and plots have huge potential for characters to grow and get outside the conventions they were raised in. That would be a satisfying story in itself, though possibly not a genre romance.

Up till now, I’ve only enjoyed Holly's contemporary erotic romances. In a whole different way, I enjoyed Prince of Ice. It's great to find something new from her.

Grade: B+, maybe even A-


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Saturday, June 23, 2007

Lora Leigh: Harmony's Way

Harmony's Way is the 11th book in the Breeds series, so you know what to expect. A well written, very sexed-up erotic romance, with lots of plot and psychodrama. And characters who fall in love superduper fast, aided by paranormal body chemistry. Unfortunately this series has fallen flat. The Breeds' biological imperatives tend to overwhelm the romance, and character development can be rather sketchy.

The Breed books are set in an interesting world. The Breeds are a bioengineered race with both human and animal traits. The crux of the series is a phenomenon called Mating Heat. Snort for the name, but it's apt: when a Breed finds a mate, they rut like goats until conception. (Cue sex: much, much sex.)

Harmony is a Lion Breed. She escaped from the breeding labs as a child, and became a vigilante, isolated from Breeds and humans alike. In Harmony's Way she's working as a sheriff's deputy and hiding from militant human supremacists. Lance is a macho small-town New Mexico sheriff with a talent for listening to the winds. The winds send him for a one-nighter with Harmony, but they don't warn him she's a Breed whose bite will change his body chemistry forever.


I hadn't read the Breeds series for a while, which gave Harmony's Way extra freshness. Even so, it's not my favorite of the series by a long shot. Harmony isn't a strong enough character to breathe fresh air into a book so late in the series, and Lance is a great character but underdeveloped. Nonetheless, Leigh creates a lot of heat and intensity between the two--even given crazy time constraints, the insatiable rut, a long-lost asshole brother, and enemies galore. After 11 books, I'm surprised that the story isn't worn out. But the Breeds are a survive-by-seat-of-pants group, the drama is overwrought but not purple, and Leigh's voice is exceptionally strong.

I rarely believe in love that's induced by metaphysical freakery. In the Breed books it bothers me less, largely because I suspend disbelief pretty severely to read erotic romance. Breeds don't get a lot of choice in their mating: it's Wham, bam, ogod what's happening, I suddenly can't live without your semen, seriously, it hurts, oh noooo, wham-bam-bambambam.

In the series' favor, both partners are out of their depth with the mating; both are coerced by hormones and Fate, and they can only find a solution together. (In contrast, in Christine Feehan's Carpathian books the [male] vampire recognizes his lifemate, and often forces the mating on her. He is far older and more experienced than she, and his needs and decisions are shrouded in mysteries and ceremonies that she can't penetrate. Both Fate and the man coerce the woman into a relationship that's dangerous and permanent. It doesn't matter how heartfelt the scene is--that level of coercion still has a ring of the old "I vant you, you haff no choice, you vill die vithout me now.")

The Beef

It also helps that there are Breed females. We don't meet many, just enough to change the dynamic now and then. Book 2 (Jacob's Faith) features both male and female Breeds. Books 3 (Kiss of Heat) and 13 (Dawn's Awakening) feature female Breeds. Harmony's no alpha-kitty though, and that's my biggest beef.

In most of the series, the male/animal connection is strong. The hero is the Breed; he does all the growling, biting during sex, marking territory. Harmony is possessive, she purrs, she growls, but it's "cute", not threatening. Also absent is the alpha-kitty drive. Lance, though human, is larger and stronger, and his winds level the playing field against Harmony's superkitty senses.

Disappointingly, it's not much of a contest: Harmony's not the ass-kicker she's made out to be. Despite being a stone-cold killer feared by all, she's pretty passive when it comes down to it. She also folds in a crisis. While she's no virgin, she's been so isolated that she's unaware of the Mating Heat; Lance is far more knowledgeable than she, and she turns helpless in a hurry as the hormones take hold. In all the books the Heat hits the female hard, but in light of Harmony's putative ass-kickiosity, it's inconsistent. Was her reputation exaggerated? Was she already tired of fighting? Did the mating change her? The male Breeds don't fall apart after mating, so some explanation is in order.

The Oops

The main story is well crafted as always, but there were a couple of clunkers.

Big wince for the subplot: Harmony is the secret sister of Jonas, a.k.a. Chief Prick and Manipulator for the Breeds. Jonas hates her, no he loves her, no he must hate her because he sets her up for a forced pregnancy. Harmony makes hissing kitty noises over his behavior, but it's all sound and fury, signifying nothing. I was disappointed not to see her exercise her steely cold assassin skills on the men running her life. Particularly Jonas, who should be a lonely-at-the-top, scary-impressive figure. Unfortunately, he overcomplicates everything. It's as if he can't plan a simple hit without running over 3 dogs and bringing the cops to his door. His part in the plot is way over the top.

There's also an eye-rolling scene in Lance's office, when he pulls a wrapped! brand new! gag gift! what a riot! ball-gag out of a cabinet so he can do Harmony on the desk without her "animalistic little growls" letting his men know he's a kitty-smurfer. On the clock, too.

There's plenty of sex in the story, and that's as it should be. But it feels like this scene exists only to ratchet up the kink. Erotic romance should at least pretend there's a plot and a romance driving the action. For the most part, Leigh walks the line well. This book just had a couple of scenes that came out of left field.

The Head-scratchers

Lora Leigh writes these crazy plots, extreme characters, melodrama and futuristic soap opera... and often she makes me like it. When I haven't read her books for a while, I tend to remember only the over-the-top aspects, and I start to downgrade her writing in my mind. But then I decide to read one last book... and she sucks me in through sheer power of voice.

The sex is explicit. Semen fetishists will be pleased, and Lance is an ass man. (Aren't they all?) And yet again, ass play is depicted as the ultimate form of domination. I never understand this, but Lora Leigh and Sarah McCarty (author of many ass-obsessed cowboys) assure us it's so. Man+ass = hot sexy domination scene? Granted there's a "bottom" involved, but... what am I missing here? Something to ponder during books 12 and up, as apparently Leigh isn't stopping any time soon.

Read instead

The earlier books in the Breeds series are safer bets. (Don't be fooled by Berkley's new numbering system, which calls Harmony's Way book 2. Leigh's site lists the books by publication date.)

Grade: B+ for storytelling, C- for Harmony's and Jonas' inconsistent characters


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